Could I have a PPP. Okay so to start with I did start the argument I’m about to…

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Could I have a PPP.

Okay so to start with I did start the argument I’m about to explain, basically my partner watched porn/saves images of pornstars and models on his phone (I am working on being okay with it).

So I go on his phone (shouldn’t have done it but curiosity got the best of me) and found a new image of a girl on his gallery after he had promised me he wouldn’t save images anymore (I have major insecurities from a past relationship), so I leave it a day and something brought up conversation and he told me im free to look on his phone to calm my mind but he takes a while messing on it before giving me it, first thing I do is go to gallery and the image is gone. So I confront him, he lies, I tell him I’ve been on his phone he is furious (but adamant he never has anything to hide), suddenly he starts getting personal with me about past arguments and taking the mick out of times I’ve cried because of arguing saying “you’d be lost without me”. So I try and lighten the mood and he just pushes me away (I understand I went on his phone, but I did tell him I know the password and to change it) and he wouldn’t let this go, he also says I’m sucking the life out of him yet he dictates every single thing I do and nothing is ever good enough or to his standard. (He also doesn’t contribute towards bills/cleaning) his only thing that he mentions is how good he is with my kids (there’s also another argument there because he doesn’t understand that kids aren’t always perfect and quiet).

I aren’t sure what I want from the post, kick up the back side? advice on how to tackle the situation? an outsider look to tell me I’m wrong and he doesn’t deserve me being like This?

Hopefully someone reads this because I’m exhausted with arguing with myself.
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