Could I have a private post please. I’m looking for some advice & perspectives …

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Could I have a private post please.

I’m looking for some advice & perspectives from other parents. What would you think of this :
I have three children, my husband has one his child stays two nights a week, my children live here full time. We have moved to a house with an attic room, my daughter picked the room as her own, over the last couple of months we have realised that the attic room is absolutely sweltering hot, we’ve had a portable air conditioner running and several fans, the fans make no difference the room is very warm constantly. My daughter has said she can’t cope staying there any longer and can she swap her bedroom to the downstairs dining room, most of the other bedrooms are downstairs anyway, this is where my husbands child sleeps at the moment it’s a dining room/part time bedroom. I’ve said I’ll think it through. I was thinking because my daughter stays here full time it might be better to allow her to swap rooms as then the upstairs room will only be used twice a week and we can afford to run the air conditioning for that time, to cool it down, we just can’t afford to have it running 7 days a week. So it makes more sense to me. My husband has gone in a right mood, stormed out of the bedroom and everything over it, he wants her to stay there, he says it’ll make it harder to get to the back garden through the patio doors, we’ll have to move the dining table, he’ll have to move his computer, his child will have to stay in the upstairs bedroom which is nearer my boy and he doesn’t trust them not to play up and it means he will have to go up and down the stairs to settle the children at night, he even threw in ‘so my kid will lose her room then’ – to clarify the dining room is only where we keep a pull out bed for her at the moment as we haven’t long moved here, it’s a temporary bedroom. These reasons, to me, do not seem to compare to the fact that my daughter is sleeping in a sweltering hot bedroom, it’s hard to breathe in there it’s so hot! Could I have opinions please, does he have a point that I shouldn’t let her move or not? Because I’m really annoyed with him over this, it seems to me he doesn’t care about my daughter. Another thing following the room thing – I spoke to my son earlier about his dream to open a cafe, I mentioned to him that I wanted to open a sweet shop before, just in conversation, I went back in the room to my husband and asked him if he would support me if I had my own shop and he said no, because I didn’t talk to him first I talked to my son in a private conversation so he wouldn’t support me with that if I have a family meeting without him, so he went in a mood about that as well. I’m so angry right now, he is so sulky & argumentative since we’ve gotten married and moved house 😞
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