Could i have a private post please? In need of help!! So i have a 9month old so…

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Could i have a private post please? In need of help!!
So i have a 9month old son and his dad hasn’t been in his life very much from the start idid everything by myself such as appointments buy everything make sure he wouldn’t need for anything as i had no help from his dad, my son was born by emergency c section and his dad still wouldnt come and be there or waiting to make sure he was alright as they didn’t know if either of us would make it:( then when he was born he was in special care for nearly 2 weeks and he still wouldn’t come he has to be made to come but only time even though i would sit there 24/7 not wanting to leave my new born it all just seemed so easy for him to walk away he wouldnt message or anything only his mum would. Then when i was out of hospital his mum would ask if they could come round to visit but they wouldn’t hold him or anything just say how lovely he was. And things got better then offered to have him to give me a break so i allowed it as i thought his dad would make a bond but they didnt i got told from other family/friends that my babys dad was never seen with him only the grandparents, then when he got onto food they wouldnt feed him only give him bottles so making things harder for me and my new boyfriend! So i put and end to it and said he couldn’t go no more and then they broke my door down nearly and got really aggressive and again i sorted and let them see my baby again but then he would make excuses why he could come pick my son up if his parents wasnt there to help gim so I offered him to stay with me and see him that didn’t work so not knowing what to do i ended it but stull wanted the family to see my son but they wouldn’t and now they have started to see him again all a bit mess Iknow!! But his dad never seems to care it always his mum asking to come and texting to see how he is! And all this time he still pays nothing which idont mind as me my boyfriend do it all and he had been there from the start being a daddy to my baby but im hoping my babys dad will change and grow up!!!! Im wanting help and advice on what to do! I dont want to stop them coming iwant my baby to get to know them again and love them but its hard trying and getting nothing back!
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