Could I have a private post please it’s a bit if a sensitive topic but I think m…
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Could I have a private post please it’s a bit if a sensitive topic but I think my ex is emotionally abusing our child.
My child is with there dad 2 weekends a month iv just had to go collect my child after only a few hours with his dad because his dad calls me screaming and shouting calling our child pathetic calling him a joke and telling him to f**k off and not come back my child is 8 years old what can I do? I want to stop him from going there but where do I start? He’s a very aggressive person so want to do it through the correct channels
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Can you reply to my post. He’s not going back but I don’t have any proof would a lawyer still take this serious without any proof? I’m so heartbroken for my son having to hear those thing from his own father š x
I wouldn’t send him again, & if his father asks why I would just say well the last time we spoke you said ‘fuck off & not to come back’ so I’m not bringing him back x
If you have any proof then keep it. And just stop your 8 year old going if his bothered thst much he will take you to court xx
I know he’s only 8 but if your child decides he doesn’t want to go there again he doesn’t have too! I wouldn’t send me child back to someone like that
I’m currently going through solicitors with my son and his dad If u child is 8 they decide if they want to go stop all contact now go and see a solicitor and get half a hour free advice u can stop acsess on those grounds till it goes to court x
Ask your son what he wants to do. If he decides to see him, talk to your ex about how he treats his son, as his son will grow up just like him. He if doesn’t want to go, there’s your answer, don’t send him.
Ask ur 8 yr old if he still wants contact with his dad and see what he says just make sure u won’t be mad if u say he does or doesn’t want to see him treat him like an adult a bit there and ask him what he wants helps when he says u stopped me u can say no I asked he said he didn’t
If I was you, my child wouldn’t be going back!
If the poster would like to inbox I can chat there with them x
Id stop the contact esspecially if your child is unhappy you cant force him to go
He deffo wouldn’t be going back! X
Take him to.court
He wouldn’t be going back