Could I have a private post please? It’s long but basically me and my partner sp…

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Could I have a private post please? It’s long but basically me and my partner split up due to bickering and I caught him messaging someone behind my back. We were really happy majority of the time and everyone used to say how good we were together. The last few weeks of our relationship we’d argue then I’d try to put the effort in but he wouldn’t, caught him texting this girl but said we would have one last try at making it work. Two days later I went mental saying how I hated him for what he’s done etc and he ended things. A week later I found out I was pregnant which was a total sunrise as I was on the pill and I have PCOS. I’ve already a 9 year old daughter and he has a 3 year old too (not together), when I told him he begged me to short saying he would do anything for me to get rid of it, it’s his worst nightmare having a child by me etc. I was then in hospital due to my PCOS and had a few scans and found out everything was fine and the baby was healthy. At this point he’d known for over a month but refused to tell his fsmily or friends, choosing to instead go out every weekend and bury his head in the sand. I did give him a bit of abuse (more because I was hurt about the break up). Soon as I knew everything was fine I announced it on Facebook, he kicked off at me for doing that because he hadn’t told his family yet (as he wanted it kept quiet for as long as he could). Since then I’ve tried being civil, I’ve tried including him, sending pictures of my bump, asked what date he would like me to book my early gender scan for so he could come and I just get the minimal back from him. I’ve had abuse from his friends calling me a slut, I’m having this baby for his money (I’ve never asked my daughters dad for a penny so I don’t know why they’d think that of me), that I’m s c*nt for keeping it, a scumbag having two children to two different dads, that I must have trapped him to get pregnant with my problems and being on the pill, when his family found out not one of them messaged me instead they chose to block me on Facebook. I asked my ex why and he said they don’t like me, went nothing to do with me, they expect to see the baby when it arrives but won’t be having any contact with me through pregnancy or when the baby is here. Sorry I know it’s long but I just don’t know what to do, do I keep trying to include him, do I leave him to it? Because when we first split up I said s few nasty comments to him apparently he sees it as his side of th family and friends can treat me how they went. Also he’s made a big deal of stating how we won’t be getting back together because of the baby (I don’t want that anyway) and that he’s so over me yet he can’t even have s normal civil conversation with me, instead since we split he’s gone out every weekend, chatting up loads of girls and burying his head in the sand. I would never stop him being involved I’m not like that but I don’t know how to deal with him in this pregnancy.
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