Could I have a privet post please. Its a bit long sorry, 2 and a half years ag…
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Could I have a privet post please.
Its a bit long sorry,
2 and a half years ago When my child was born I went though at stage of absolutely hating my husband! I literally couldn’t stand the sight of him! He’s not a bad guy (bit of a slob and and a bit selfish but generally good) works hard and try’s his best housework wise and with looking after lo it got really bad and everyday I would wish he wouldn’t come home from work and he’d just leave me alone. Because he works so hard he’s not about much and it meant he didn’t learn baby’s routine or how to look after her properly and would do his own thing and cause chaos when he was bout. It nearly finished us he was miserable and so was I the only reason we continued was because of our daughter. Slowly over time and as baby grew it improved and we rebuilt our relationship. He still drives me mad but only in the usual ways husbands do.
Anyway fast forward to now I’m pregnant with our second not planned but a lovely surprise and I can feel these old feelings of hate creeping in again. I can’t stand him dread him coming home because I’ll have to give him a kiss and he quite rightly want some attention. I literally don’t care about his day or what he’s been upto don’t want him to touch me everything he does drives me mad and makes me so angry I can’t even stand the smell of him next to me in bed. I’m horrified I feel this way and feel so sorry for him but I can’t help it. I’ve spoken to the doctor who basically said it’s hormones and it’ll pass. I dont know what to do I don’t think we can do this again and be ok. Before we had children we were absolutely fine and happy togeather. I’ve tried talking to him but he just buries his head and says her we go again. Any ideas would be great fully received thankyou x
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I go through this for a solid week each month. Its like a switch just flips. And its perfectly on time each month, 1 week before my period. But its was sooooo much worse when i was pregnant. I didnt care what he was up to. I didnt want him to touch me. Just thinking about him irritated me…. I eventually sussed it out that its hormones. Likely an imbalance of some sort and it doesn thelp i have depression (which normally doesnt effe t how i see others. Just myself) sooooo lile its been said. Its best to let him know you have feelings of hate towards him. It made my oh feel so much better that it wasnt something he did and its something i dont want to happen either. But it does and we just have to not let it bother us 🙂 honesty turns out is the best policy. In this sort of situation
Talk to him so he knows what is going on with your brain. Also speak to your Dr and he can give you some coping techniques. There may even be a relatively safe medication you can take. Bless you dear because out of whack hormones will make you miserable. Hope you can get them in balance.
U need to to sit down and talk with him explain wot ur feeling and how u want him to support u and wen u feel these feelings think of wot made u fall in love with ur husband and all the happy times uve had u cud have slight depression but ur fine and if it is ur hormones just ignore them as much as possible xx