Could I please have a private post need some advise. Me and my children’s dad we…

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Could I please have a private post need some advise.
Me and my children’s dad were together for five year, last year i sufferd a miscarriage due to a molar pregnancy, since then we went down hill big time. Cut a long story short we broke up a couple of months ago but I said he could stay untill he’d found somewhere to live, after a while he was still there with no sign of leaving but we ended up sleeping together after a couple of drinks 😏 well recently I started talking to a really old friend again (we have a history) and after a while one thing lead to another and we ended up sleeping together… then I found out I was pregnant!! I told both that I was and that there was a chance either one of them could be the dad (sounds bad I know)… by this point my old friend said he’d fallen in love with me (again) and chose to stand by me whatever the outcome of the baby… but my ex went off one massively, he turned up at my sisters threatening to kill me, smashed my house up and drove his car into a wall in the process…. now a few weeks on had decided he wants to be with me and be there for me one way or another… before the pregnancy was found out my ex had told that if I ever got pregnant with someone else he kick me in the stomach to stop it and said that if he couldn’t have me then no one can and he’d throw acid in my face to stop me ( he’s now claiming he was joking about it) now he’s moved himself back in and has started asking if we cud make a go of things, but I’m not sure I want that, I feel like i should be with the other guy as he treats me so much nicer than my ex ever did…. anyway I’m not really sure what I want to do so guess I’m looking for people’s opinions on the situation… whenever I try and talk to my friends they just talk about how they feel sorry for my ex but I’m not quite sure why as we were not together and hadn’t been for ages when I slept with the other guy!!
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