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Good morning. Can I post privately plz. I need advice ladies. I feel like my da…

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Good morning. Can I post privately plz.

I need advice ladies. I feel like my daughter is being singled out in school. Here’s my story.
My lg has had the same best friend since starting school. She’s now going into year 4 so the friendship had got pretty tight. I’ve had my girls friend on numerous holidays with us, have her every week, treat her like my own and thought I had a good relationship going on with her mum too. My girl gets treated well at her best friends house but has never been away with them or days out ect. In fact she hasn’t been for a play in the past year…Well, another child has now came into their click and causing no end of trouble. This girls mum has asked my girls best friends mum to help her out some mornings. She’d do little things like arranging partners before school starts so my girl dnt be her best friends, not saving her a seat at lunch so she’s left to sit alone, whisper to the group of friends an leave my girl out ect ect ect. I’ve had this girls mum in school for a meeting as I was finding notes my child had written saying how sad she feels and doesn’t want to go to school because of the way she’s been treated! This girls mum took no blame what so ever and things got a bit heated. We managed to finally sort things and thought everything’s been going well up until Friday just gone. We seen her friends cross at the lights and my girl wanted to wait for them. As they crossed over they all ran away from her, this made me feel like shit let alone how my daughter felt! I ended up messaging my girls best friends mum to say how I felt about it and that I dnt think it’s fair how she’s being treated again. Anyway her response wasn’t quite wht I expected.. She basically said she’d had a word with her daughter and told her to make sure mines wasn’t left out and that she’s got her own problems going on so don’t need the extra stress, she’s been through it all before with her other child so is more laid back with her youngest.
This story goes on an on I could type all day but from what I’ve said already can anyone give me a piece of advise on how to deal with the situation…? I’m fighting the world left right and centre and getting nowhere. I have my own personally stuff going on so fell I just need a good old rant and hear from someone that’s not involved. Roll on the summer holidays!! X
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  • Tamjid

    Hi Just read this. Has it been sorted? I can remember girls being bitchy when I was at school. It’s clear there’s nothing else yiu can do to help patch up the friendship. What you can do is teach your daughter resilience and self worth .tell her it’s hard right now but not worth chasing after a friendship which brings such sadness and to invest time in new ones. Explain how you’ve had different friends at different times in your life.

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