Hello, can I have a ppp! I’m a mother of a four month year old baby, I was in …
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Hello, can I have a ppp!
I’m a mother of a four month year old baby, I was in the middle of doing an adult nursing degree and fell pregnant so I interrupted ( this means left uni and they held my space open so I can effectively pick up where I left off when I return) I’m due to return back in a couple weeks, my baby will be in nursery 8.30-4.30, I know some people will judge me but I’m trying to build a stable future for my family, I spoke to my partner about this and mentioned about when I graduate, he feels as though I shouldn’t go into a job straight away and make up for lost time with my child ( she will be around 2 by this point) I can’t help like everyone thinks I’m pushing my child to the side, but it’s really for stability! Growing up we struggled and I don’t want the same for my child, truth is I don’t know if I will take a year out once I graduate.. does this make me a bad Mum?
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Yr not a bad mum at all This happened to my friend do what is best for you’s she went bk to uni and has got her graduation tomorrow, her little boy is at childminders all day as her husband also works, u have to show yr children that if u work hard enough u can have nice things in life, go n finish uni and go to work u don’t have to work all hours u can spend plenty time with ur kids xxx
You won’t be pushing your baby aside and you’ll have lots of time after daycare to spend with her. You’re making moves to ensure your baby has a financially stable future which is great because you care. Ignore anyone that is trying to discourage you from reaching your goals in life xx
It will be so hard but worth it . I put my degree on hold after falling pregnant and they deferred my year . I was due to go back when the baby was 6 months old and I turned my place down as I just was not ready to leave her . Looking back I regret it so much . I worked my ass off to get into the course and it is a very hard course to get accepted in .
Since I turned it down they’ve now changed the entry requirements so I’d now have to resist a maths gcse and get a B before I can even apply so it’s not something I’m going to do .
I know someone who is doing a nursing degree with a 16 month old and her plan is to only work part time 15/20 hours when she’s qualified until the baby is older x
I’m a children’s nurse and started uni when my eldest was 6 months old. Best thing I ever did. I’ve now been qualified 5 years and love what I do. Uni is extremely hard with a baby but it will be worth it in the end to have a job you like and able to provide for your little one
I’m going back to my uni degree in Sept and my littlest one will be 9months I had to take a year out and now this is my last chance to complete it is doing this like I am to give it child the best in life
My kids went into full time child care from 4 and 6 months. I feel that due to spending time with other adults and children they are far more confident and independent as 16 and 11 year olds now.
It does not make you a bad Mum at all! There’s nothing wrong with wanting to provide a financial secure and stable future for your child. Best of luck with your career x
think of the bigger picture. she won’t remember the times you weren’t there as a baby. but she will see the future you’ve provided for her. plus the work ethic you’ve shown her. you go for it mamma! xx
Sometimes, staying home is a luxury moms can’t afford. You have to do what you have to do to take care of your family. That is what a good mom does.
You don’t have to go into full time work you may be able to work part time for a while…
Don’t let them make you feel bad like you said you want better for your child ain’t no shame in that good luck
Four month year old?!