Hello can I have a private post please So I’ve been thinking for a while about …

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Hello can I have a private post please

So I’ve been thinking for a while about this but I really don’t know how to go about it. I was dead set on it earlier but now I’ve come to actually send the message, I just feel like I’m going to embarrass myself

Right. So when I was in school, my head of year and his wife (I don’t think they could have children of their own) so they wanted to adopt, but they wasn’t successful for whatever reason (probably because they were both very busy teachers)

Anyway. So my head of year was so lovely, he was honestly like my school dad. He was amazing. And he really does deserve to be a dad himself..

I wanted to be a surrogate for them. I wouldn’t want nothing in return. It’s purely because I’d love to do something for someone that really deserves it. I absolutely love being pregnant but I’m not in the right place to be having anymore children right now, so this way I get the joy of being pregnant.. but without the expense of a baby at the end.. and the best bit is I’d get to help a family that would be forever greatful..

I spoke to my mum about this today and she was a bit unsure just basically saying that what if I changed my mind etc but I wouldn’t. I’ve been thinking about it over and over and I really don’t want another child!! I’d much rather help someone else out..

As horrible as it sounds I wouldn’t ever be a surrogate for a stranger.. or anyone else.. only this couple.

I was thinking about making a private Facebook and messaging them on there about it. Seeing what they say back. And then telling them who I am..

All my friends and family either have a job or go to uni etc. I’ve had a child, yes great she’s brilliant but I just don’t feel like I’ve achieved anything yet. I feel like this would make me feel happy and feel like I’ve achieved a massive thing in my life!

This is a serious post not a joke. It would honestly be a dream if they accepted. Am I being really unrealistic? Or if not can anyone help me word how I can offer this gift to them without sounding like a creep 🙄

Tia
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