Hello I was wondering if you could post anon for me please I’m a single moth…

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Hello 😊 I was wondering if you could post anon for me please 😊

I’m a single mother to 3 beautiful children all under 5.
I have fallen pregnant all three times while on contraception.

I recently rekindled with a guy, and I’ve just found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant, confirmed with 3 home tests and a blood test.
I have a Mirena in.
I spoke to a relative of said person and hypathetically explained the situation saying it was a friend and what advice would she give. He has a young child he is fighting to see. Etc. She said she would tell the person to keep it and do what she wanted to do.
I then decided to tell said person the truth and her advice totally changed.
I would ruin the guys life and make him lose so much.
I guess I’m just stuck on what to do.
I took precautions and I know nothing is 100% but I’m ready to take this on and give this child a life they deserve.
Am I being selfish?
I haven’t told the guy because I’ve practically been scared into keeping my mouth shut, but I feel like he should have a say in the situation.
If he doesn’t want a baby that’s his decision and I’d never force him to be apart of the child’s life, and I’d still never bad mouth him to the child if they asked questions. And even 5 years down the track if he wanted a part of the child’s life id never Denie that. Please add I have since had my Mirena taken out.
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