Hello I’m wondering if I can have a private post please. Me and my ex partner sp…
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Hello I’m wondering if I can have a private post please. Me and my ex partner split up when my son was 2 weeks old. (2015) there was also domestic violence involved. Anyways ss got involved because of it. It’s all sorted now. Anyways we have started working things out and he comes see his son (I breast fed him) anyways we had sex and I’m now pregnant. I’m claiming as a single parent as technically I am as he doesn’t live with me and lives else where. He pays bills and mail etc goes to that address. I’m just scared because I’m pregnant they will think I’m not single and I need to put in a transfer for a bigger house but I don’t want the hassle of them asking why I’m pregnant etc. Has anyone been through anything like this. Thanks.
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Sorry to be a pain but can you add this. What you mean go legal? Ss don’t have a problem with us being together and there not getting involved at all as they said they don’t have no need to the close the case well over near 2 years before my son was even born. I have sleep coach that comes out that helps me with my sons sleeping. Who knows I don’t want to rush head first into living together again due to past dv etc but I don’t want my council thinking I’m living with him just because I’m pregnant.
Can you reply please. No I mean he pays bills at his house and post goes to his address not my house. And because he’s so clingy and being breastfed that I prefer my ex coming to mine and spending time with our son. I just don’t want them thinking I’m not single because I’m pregnant even though I am single. Me and my ex can’t rush into anything due to the pervious domestic violence so taking things slow before jumping in the deep end moving back in together again.
Anyways,What does breast feeding have to do with him seeing his son? anyways? sounds a bit suspicious if he still paying bills and has post going to the address he does not live at?the housing association will think the same.they will also not do anything until you have had the baby as currently you don’t need a bigger house.
The social wont get involved until baby is born once he’s on the birth certificate if u r seeing him they will ask you to go legal