Hello, please could I have a private post.. I have recently separated with my h…

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Hello, please could I have a private post..

I have recently separated with my husband (his choice to leave as he wasn’t happy!) and he is being extremely difficult. He will only see our three children (11, 7 and 1) on a Friday night for 24 hours. Our two eldest children have just started a club on a Friday night from 1830-2000 and he says he is not prepared to take them so they will have to miss it. I asked them if they wanted to go to the sports club or go to stay with dad and they both said club. So I took them and they loved it, it wasn’t a problem for me. Husband took the baby and said he would be back at ten the next morning to collect the older two and take them to karate for 10.30. He cakes me at twenty past ten to say he wouldn’t make it so I ended up taking them. He works all day on a Sunday so he can’t have them overnight on a Saturday however I did book him in for this coming Saturday as I am working, also the 1st of July as I have a charity evening to go to. He is now saying he’s not prepared to have them in these dates. How do people stay amicable after a marriage breaks down? He was helping out during the week in the evenings so I could take one child to a club (swimming, football, etc) but has now said he is not prepared to help me out during the week so the children will have to give their clubs up, he is not helping me but spending time with his children! I really don’t know how to play this one. I don’t want games and I don’t want things to become nasty but at the same time I don’t want to force him to see his children? Help please x
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