Hey can I get a private post please? I need to know if I’m overreacting or not…

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Hey can I get a private post please?

I need to know if I’m overreacting or not? I’ll try to keep it as short as poss 😂

Basically me and my ex have recently split. We have 2 children.. we’ve agreed one eve in the week and every other weekend. He asked to have them today, as it’s fathers day. Obviously I said yes. Then he tells me he’s got to work he hasn’t, I know that 100000% he was not at work today and was out last night! (I dont care that hes going out, not my buisness anymore, but why lie?!) This is the main reasoning we split! He’s a compulsive liar among other reasons. He said he would get the children at 2. Fine, whatever. I messaged at just gone 2 to find out what’s going on and to say X is waiting for you, really excited etc. Nothing!! I try to call, No answer. So I messaged basically saying.. you’ve asked to see them, if you don’t want to, just have the decency to let me know and I will take them out! Finally a message back saying. I always want to see them (yeah, ok) blah blah.. that was it no mention of what was actually happening or what time he would finally be dragging his hungover arse here. I messaged saying why are you avoiding the question? I get,
I’ll leave in a bit! So I asked him what that means? Because again X has been waiting etc. He says an hour! 😠 so I’ve just messaged him saying this!

Whatever, do you know what?! If you’re not here in an hour like you’ve said, we won’t be here when you finally decide to turn up..

Am I wrong?! He always makes me out to be the bad person, when yeah I’m not perfect and I have never claimed to be, but he is the reason we split up. I’ve said he’s a compulsive liar, cheating rumours, he’s told me he’s at work when he’s in the pub and I’ve been sat in a+e, He’s joined dating sites while we were together etc. Am i overreacting?

Thanks in advance x
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