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Hey can I have a post please, please no bashing!! We all have a past..bit of a l…

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Hey can I have a post please, please no bashing!! We all have a past..bit of a long story but here it goes, when I was 15 I met up with some older men who believed I was 18, (stupid and dangerous i know, but its the past and I cant change it!!) anyway there was one guy who I spoke to online pretending to be 18 for a few months, before I told him the truth. He was the only one who knew I was only 15 (he was late 20s at the time) but we still continued to talk. We didn’t meet until I was 18 (joint decision!) when he took me out for a meal, treated me like a princess and ended up booking a hotel room….now 10 years on, I’m happily married and he’s busy living his life, we still talk every few months/years but don’t really talk talk if you know what I mean. This morning I have woken up to read in the paper that said guy has been stung by paedophile hunters after arranging to meet a fake 15 year old (hunters pretended to be a 15 year old girl) and he has been given a suspended prison sentence. Although I was an adult when we met, he used to speak to me online in a sexual way knowing I was only 15, but didn’t want to meet until after my 16th birthday (we put it off til I was 18 though) what do I do? Do I believe the papers, block him and forget about him? Do I believe the man I once knew and message him ensuring he’s ok? Or what? I’m so confused! X
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10 thoughts on “Hey can I have a post please, please no bashing!! We all have a past..bit of a l…

  • I would speak to the police, he obviously has a problem with young girls and you making a statement could help other girls..my daughter is 18 this year and I would be massively worried if it was her..i man in his 20s has no business talking to a 15 year old girl in that way and he could well be part of a ring x

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  • I would speak to the police too , don’t be fooled (again ) like u said u were young then but imagine if it happened to your daughter . How easily she could get caught

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  • So basically he’s now nearly 40 and still talking to teenage girls! Sorry to say but you was groomed! Block him and forget his existence

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  • It was not your fault either! This is a classic case of grooming and makes me sick! And he’s obviously very active still!
    Many people like this can be very charming and nice..often staying friends with the girl

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  • Why would you disbelieve the papers? No way would I contact him! I’d speak to the police and give evidence AGAINST him!!

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  • paedophile hunters have a fb page pm them if you dont want to go to the police gl x

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