Hey can I have a private post please Would you say this is controlling if your …
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Would you say this is controlling if your partner said to you I’ve been thinking and working out all your bills and how much you should have left at the end of the month and I think you should be more careful with what your spending on …
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Nope. I do the same with my husband (he’s the only earner) but if you’re not struggling at the end of the month, just make him aware it doesn’t matter what you’re spending your money on.
No he’s not controlling, that’s just pointing out you could manage your money better, in most relationships there is one partner who can manage to budget better.
It depends, are you complaining about having no money or stressed about how little money you have left? If yes he could just be trying to help without realising how pushy it sounds. But if you haven’t voiced any money issues or worries then that does sounds really odd and I would be asking why he thinks it’s a problem what you have left?
No I’m forever working out my boyfriends money as he’s hopeless. I sort out his direct debits and things and tell him what he actually has to spend. If I didn’t he would blow it all in one go.
No. That’s him showing concern for you. He wants you to be able to live within your means.
No its not. It’s sensible money management and budgeting. It sounds perfectly sensible to me.
Not really. It sounds like he has concerns that your spending is out of control. Are you perhaps putting fun stuff over bills,are you getting behind on payments?Unless he actually takes control of your bank account,it’s not controlling
No that’s budgeting
No.