Hey can iv a post please. Please don’t think I’m being selfish but I’m not sure …

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Hey can iv a post please. Please don’t think I’m being selfish but I’m not sure where I am at the minute.
I’m with my partner 4 years have one child together and he’s two girls from a previous relationship. The kids Mam is very hard to deal with unless she wants something or it’s maintenance day and she’s as sweet as pie.
Over the last couple of months she has made our days with the girls very hard to enjoy. We would ring them during the week and she would say oh they can’t talk or whatever or never answer. But when we have them for a few hours she rings constantly. We have brought the girls away last year and we are going to do the same this year and she won’t let us because apparently there’s too much bombs in France and she wouldn’t trust us having them. My partner does everything for her because he’s afraid of her and her dad. I support him through everything but the last couple of months she has drove a wedge between us. Like we want to go see Santa next week on our time and we were going to make a big deal out of it as my daughter is only 1 and go to stay in a hotel go Christmas shopping etc and she’s not happy. In Ireland we have the toy show and we asked if we could have the girls next week for it and she said no Iv organised a massive party for it etc have it all planned the last two months and the girls today told us she won’t be here there staying in their nannies.
She has another child and a fiancé so I don’t think it’s jealousy. But when I ask my partner to speak to her he won’t because her dad will come over him and he has done before he ended up sending people over to our house threatening us. I love my partner so so much but I’m starting to fall out of love with him because of her. It’s like he has to do everything to keep her happy because her dad will come after us but he’s like oh well I’m with you so it’s fine and puts me and our daughter on the long finger. I don’t know it’s hard to explain in a message but anyone have a similar situation or give me advice. Please no bashing I’m in bits as it is xx
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