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Hey looking for advice, Me and my partner have been together for 5 years, she’s …

Hey looking for advice,
Me and my partner have been together for 5 years, she’s currently pregnant with baby number 3 but it’s not mines she had sex with one of her friends that she hasn’t seen in 3 years 12 weeks ago when I was off shore, I don’t know if I should stay with her or leave her and don’t know if how to talk to her about it as every time I bring it up she just says I thought you said you won’t make me feel uncomfortable it’s like I can’t win the guy the baby belongs to already has 13 kids to different mums and says he wants nothing to do with this one and to get rid of it(he’s only 21 my wife and I are 23 (were newly weds too shows how much she actually cares πŸ˜‚)
P.S is there any way of getting a DNA test before the baby’s born just to make sure although we are 99.99.9% sure it is his as her last period was when I went away off shore and we haven’t done it since I came back…


9 thoughts on “Hey looking for advice, Me and my partner have been together for 5 years, she’s …

  • My husband would divorce me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ sorry but you do need to think how you’re going to manage this… you obviously know this baby isn’t yours but DNA tests are once a child is born… isn’t it the saying that the bloke has one in every port-he needs to stop spreading his seed … she should be ashamed of herself and think how she will cope if you can’t hack it.
    If you do hack it. Good luck to you and I wish you the best cos I couldn’t do it… only thing in her favour in my eyes is that she told you herself and not from someone else or even kept it from you.

  • She’s taking you for a ride she owes you a conversation at the very least.
    No one can tell you what is best but she has broken her vows and doesn’t deserve an husband.
    Honestly wish you all the best with what ever choice you decide.

  • I was in the same boat. All tho i was single when i fell pregnant second time and my oldest dad stepped up to be the dad, some men can some cant, do what you thinks best

  • You still have 2 other kids , I know she cheated but you’ve obviously forgiven her or you’d of left straight away . It’s not the babies fault . If this guy wants nothing do with this baby then you bring he/she up as your own . It’s only DNA . It’s who’s there with love and support . If you love her stay and be a family . I guarantee you will fall in love with this baby . It’s your children’s little brother or sister and also half your girlfriend just think of it like that not some loser who wants nothing to do with the baby . You sound like a decent man. I think you already know the answer or you’d of left already . Good luck xx

  • No now.ur recently married, went away working to provide for her and the kids while she jumps into bed with a “friend “and she’s not comfortable talking about it? I’d make her talk about it. U have to speak about it or u go mad with it all going round in ur head.u need to decide if u can raise the baby like ur own

  • You say you are newlyweds so to me your marriage in her eyes mustn’t mean much, personally I couldn’t stay coz I wouldn’t be able to trust her again but I wish you goodluck.

  • 😲 she feels uncomfortable?! If this was the other way round people would be telling you to leave. You should, but its your choice. She’s done wrong and I’m sorry but she owes it to you to talk about it! I’m not that strong and couldn’t stay. She clearly thinks little of your marriage, Sorry to be harsh, I think you deserve better.

  • I would leave her so fast I wouldn’t even have time to write thisπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. She doesn’t deserve you tbh xx

  • I am so saddened reading this!! A new marriage already has a sour turn.. I’m very sorry for youπŸ˜”πŸ˜”


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