Hey was wondering can u post privately. Myself and my partner have been togethe…

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Hey was wondering can u post privately.

Myself and my partner have been together the past 9 years with one child and we are in our early 20s.

All of our friends are young single and childless (or in his case his friends have kids but don’t look after or pay for them)

Both my partner and I miss out on most nights out unless its a big night out and we’ve planned and saved a few weeks before hand. My partner is a great dad 99% of the time but lately I’ve noticed him getting most of the nights out while I’m left with no choice to mind out daughter just because i haven’t made plans. Which the reason behind me not making plans everyweekend is because i know he wouldn’t like to be left in by himself with the child all the time but he has no problem doing it to me and disappearing for 2-3 days with his phone off. Hed never ever ask if i wanted to do something with him on the weekend.

What I need help with is how to tell him to stop going out without trying to be controlling. Because in my opinion if he wanted to spend time with us on weekends he would without me begging and Id hate to come across as the over protective girlfriend who wont let her man out of the house.

Im also looking on ways for us to bond more as a couple as i feel like we are just existing living together and every day is just routine. A babysitter is almost impossible so anything we do the child is always there.

Any advice is appreciated as i feel like i am the only one interested any more. I feel like I have so much to offer someone relationship wise buy my partner never even wants to have a cuddle.

Am i a fool for even still trying I need a man who will over power me with his love for me instead of me feeling like I’m raising my son alone

Thanks ☺
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