Hi can I get a PPP! Am I been selfish? So the conversation of Christmas came …

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Hi can I get a PPP!

Am I been selfish?

So the conversation of Christmas came up yesterday between me and my partner! He is refusing to go to my parents house on Christmas Day for Christmas dinner as he doesn’t like them for one reason or another but all would be very civil as its Xmas day and we have 2 children together. He will not go at all, not even for an hour! The past 3 years we have woke up, done presents got dressed and left the house by 11am to go to his mums house and do the family thing with them, then go on to my mums at 2 for again presents and Xmas dinner until 7ish when we go home. Now becasue he doesn’t want to go to my mums at all he is saying I’m taking the kids away from him and I’m been selfish becasue I want my family to see the kids on Xmas day! I’ve explained to him that i share my Xmas day with his family so he should do the same for the sake of the children. But no! He will not budge! He did the same thing last year and chose to spend the day shampooing our carpets and then had the nerve to call my mum telling her to keep me as he didn’t want me in the house Becasue I hadn’t text him all day! He’s such a child! I love Xmas and this is the first one were the boys actually no about Santa and understand it all! So my question is: am I been selfish for going to my mums at 2-7 on Xmas day, even though he has been invited and he is choosing not to come? If we spent the day at home or if I went home earlier than 7 to make hm happy all he would do is look on his phone all evening and not play with the kids!
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