Hi can I have a post please? I have a 6 and 4 year old and I’m going on holida…
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Hi can I have a post please?
I have a 6 and 4 year old and I’m going on holiday with out them. Problem is I’m riddled with guilt and worrying about leaving them so much! My partner booked it as a surprise for me as I’m always whinging I need a break. Am I being over dramatic? Have any other mams left their children to go away??
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Can you just post one quick reply to thank everyone for their comments, very much appreciated, I feel so much better about the whole thing now thank you so much xx
Could you write a quick reply just saying I’m going for a week and they will be with trustworthy family xx
I’ve been away twice without my son. Once for a week and once for 10days. Enjoy being “you” again rather than mummy and let your hair down if there with family that you trust then hey ho. We all deserve a break x
me and my partner went away for 4 days when my daughter just turned 3 she stayed with her nanny and grandad and ill be honest i think i was more bothered about leaving her that long than she was she wasnt even bothered when we got back lol, we also plan on going for a week next year for our honeymoon just us two then going on family holiday after x
I’m going away without my little girl who will be 6 months for 4 days, she’s staying with my mum and dad who she knows and trusts, she’s stayed odd nights with them before and I am always going round to their house to get her use to the setting. Think I’ll miss her more than she misses me! But we all deserve a break. Being a mum maybe ‘wonderful’ but it’s god dam hard work! Xx
I left my two last year to go to a wedding in Turkey for a week (aged 2 n half and just turned 1) … I felt just the same, I sobbed when I left them… but deep down I found peace in knowing I’d left them with people I wholly trust (1 with my sister and other with their nan) and it was such a lovely week. Me n my partner actually got to spend some quality relaxed time together, and it completely refreshed us both! Don’t feel guilty. In the end your kids will appreciate your return and they’ll realise how chilled you are and they’ll appreciate that more than see you stressed all the time. Enjoy yourself! Xx
I’m going to Cuba 26th June for a week without my 4 children nd to be honest I’m really looking forward to it i really need the break.. but I bet you on the day I’m going I will be Heart broken x
I’m going away for 2 weeks yeah I feel guilty but then I don’t at the same time. He’s going to have so much fun he’s going away with his dad and then staying with my mum for a week he’s gonna love it and probably won’t even miss me 😂
I went to New York for a week without my kids just me and my partner I missed them like crazy and felt guilty but they didn’t mind I came home with handfuls of pressies for them all xx
I’d be worried about leaving my baby behind too but he wouldn’t book it if he didn’t think you deserve it. Go, have fun, relax. Your babies will be in good care.
When we just had our first, my husband and I went to Italy for 4 nights and Germany for 2. You will feel guilty but you’ll also be happy for the break 🙂
Standard Mum guilt 😂😂 take the break!! They are few and far between when you have kids! The kids will be fine and you will get a much needed rest and time to enjoy yourself! X
I haven’t, but only because I’d feel too guilty and I’d spend my time worrying!!! But I say go for it!! I would if I wasn’t such a baby 😂😂
i couldnt leave my kids any longer than 3 days …everyones different if u trust who u wil be leavin them with then they wil be fine. u can ring them everyday
ok we all need a break and don’t feel bad if there with people they know and see all the time theyl see it as a holiday for themselves too like a adventure
I go on holiday once a year without my son huni everyone needs a break and if the offer is there off family to help let them x x x
They will be fine hun and I bet you and your partner really need the time together!! Relax and enjoy it!! 👌👌
I went to Kavos for a week for my sisters 21st and left my then 2 year old daughter and was upset for 2/3 days then the rest of the week I just enjoyed it the best I could.. then last year I left my 6 & 2 year old to my go magaluf for a hen weekend and sounds harsh but of course I missed them but the break was nice and knowing the other girls left children too made it easier. I’d say you only live once so 100% enjoy it and relax 😘
Do it! Go and get totally trollied! Fall over and laugh your self into a coma! My kids are 10 and 12…i go to festivals every year…always have always will. If you don’t go you’ll slowly go mad! Parents need some time out too. You deserve it x
My advice… run! 😂 have some time, everyone needs it at some point
I won’t lie I went away for a week once worst mistake ever I felt so guilty and I’ll never do it again xxx
Awesome 7 days of my life since being a mum having a holiday but you do miss them but try enjoy it it’s not forever
Go and enjoy! The way i look at it is if you’re not doing it all the time and the kids get a holiday too i dont see the problem. Its the ones who are off on holiday kid free all the time and the kids never go anywhere that i believe is wrong x
I went to New York and left the kids at home, best holiday ever!!
How long u going for and r you leaving them with someone trustworthy