Hi , can I have a post please ? Just wondering what people’s opinions are abou…
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Hi , can I have a post please ?
Just wondering what people’s opinions are about letting their 15 year old daughters have a boyfriend in their bedroom? (Not sleeping over like in the day) I’ve said no to my daughter as I don’t think it’s appropriate and I was never allowed boys in my room. Do you think I’m being fair or harsh? Thanks x
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Thanks it’s my post, I’ve just had a chat with her and said ok but door has to stay open at all times. Thanks ladies nice to have other peoples input sometimes x
I am not at that point yet as my daughter is nearly 10 but I would rather them be where I know she will be safe with the door open and let her know that when she feels ready what contraception she has available and would take her to doctors for the pill and get condoms for her. I would rather my daughter and son, who is 13 this year, eventually know that they could come to me but I would talk to them both about the house rules and show them respect as it works both ways. We were that age once and I think it is us as parents knowing what we used to get up to and hoping they do better than we did. :’) x
We aren’t at that point yet but I will let mine at that age. If they know to wait until they are ready and take precautions then personally I think I would rather my children had sex at home safely than elsewhere.
At that age I was having sex and didn’t do it in the nicest of places 🙈
I trusted my 15 year old daughter and her then bf and they both respected my house rules speak to them both and explain till u r comfortable the door needs to remain open but in return u will respect there privacy and knock on the door before entering the respect works both ways and I got 100 percent respect from my daughyer and her bf when he used to stay over he had to sleep in my son’s room who is is friends with I may also add my daughyer and son r twins lol
I would allow it but the door open I regret my past as I was a very very young age when I slept with a guy if I could turn back time I would I regret it and it wasn’t in a place either where it should have been. I was in with the round croud all older than me. When the time comes for me when my daughter gets that age I will be strict with her but I will let her have her bfs In rather her be at home than anywhere else tbh. X
I would say yeah but door open. My dad never let me, would go mad so i just went to stay at my boyfriends anyway. If you don’t let her they will just find somewhere else to go.
She’ll do it anyway let it be where u can see and intervene if needed also she’ll be scared to ask for pill ect in future if u are addament on ur decisionz it mite scare her off with bigger questions x
I wouldn’t want it to happen. Bit better at your home, where your child is safe and can call you for help if needed, than at a random strangers home or a public place
I did at 15 but had to have the door open. My mum always said she’d have rather I’d been in the house and possibly done something than have done it God knows where… xx
I’ve let my daughter…id rather her be safe in my house than outside somewhere..and give her some credit..just cos it’s a boy doesn’t mean anything’s gonna happen
I was 18 before my mum let my bf 😂🙈 ill be doing things differently with my daughter i think i will allow it as long as i know shes aware of everything rules ect x
Yeah harsh. Rather in house than God knows were doing God knows what
i always thought they are better in than god knows where x
I think at 15 you should give her some trust. Allow her to have him in the room, but, her door remains open at all times.
At 15 as long as door stays open and to be honest i would put her on birth control too
depends …. Do you trust your daughter ? If so then i dont see a problem just tell her to leave the door open x
I’ll definitely be having an open door policy! They can go in her room.. but the door stays open 😂
Until I was 16 I had to always have the door open
Could say as long as the doors open it would be fine x
Just keep popping in or keep the door open
sure u cud let him in her room and leave the door open
Keep the door open x
had to have the door open
I had my boyfriend in my room at 15 and I in his
At 15 I would allow it