Hi can I have a pp plz, and sorry for the long post Me and my ex have a 5 yr ol…

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Hi can I have a pp plz, and sorry for the long post
Me and my ex have a 5 yr old child together.
My ex worked away and would come home weekends back in November he went to work 1 week and didn’t return (apparently his head was all over and he needed some space) when I fact I found out January time he was actually having an affair and that was the reason he didn’t return.
He’s had phone calls to our child as and when he felt it was convenient ( some times once or twice a week, others nothing at all, he actually hasn’t seen him for 6 month through his own choice )but because of the impact it had on our son he ended up needing therapy,( he ended up with really bad anxiety, lashing out at every one and behaviour changed rapidly in school)
his dad has not bothered to have any contact at all for 4 weeks and decided because it was our sons birthday yesterday he would ring
I had a meeting and received the report from our sons therapist last week and because of the impact it’s had on him I have told his dad he’s not just ringing as and when any more
This is what iv asked for him to phone our son 3times a week and travel through once a month and spend a day with him yet he’s refusing this he thinks phone contact is good enough
I don’t know what I’m asking really do you guys think I’m in the wrong am I asking to much, do I just carry on letting him do what he’s doing knowing he causing more damage
Can I just add there’s no reason he can get down to see his son.
Thankyou
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