Hi can I have a PPP I’m over seven months pregnant with my first. I feel no a…
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Hi can I have a PPP
I’m over seven months pregnant with my first.
I feel no attachment to my baby whatsoever I’m terrified I won’t be able to love her.
I feel her move and kick about and I stop to take it in but deeply feel nothing.
Planned pregnancy with an amazing guy that worships the ground I walk on. But I’m so angry all the time.
I’m basically all set and have brought everything but I just want to feel love for her 😞
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Hey hun, don’t worry too much feeling this way happens often especially in a first pregnancy, all the hormones etc make your moods all over the place, I was in a similar situation myself and felt even worse when my girl was born early blaming myself etc but in time once it’s all sunk in and she’s in your arms the love for her will come to you if your overly concerned you can always speak to someone else, hope all goes well for you both x
Try not to worry. With my second baby I was like this then the second he was born I had a massive rush of love it made me cry for about half an hour. (Didn’t have this with my 1st or 3rd n I felt a connection to them when I was actually pregnant) x
I’m feeling the same right now don’t now why this is my second with my first it was totally different and amazing this time I don’t feel any bond at all just don’t know why 😒 xx
I was like this 🙂 and then at the end all the feelings came 🙂 I didn’t even feel pregnant and couldn’t believe it for a while 🙂 don’t worry the feeling will come 🙂 just relax 🙂 once your baby is here you will think how did I feel this way x
Totally normal I actually was quite horrified at my first pregnancy would hide my bump, when she moved I thought it was an alien.. even bizarre dreams about giving birth to an alien lol 😂 I weren’t excited, I tried to be, I was 17 so not anyone to enjoy it with really but when she was born it changed, didn’t happen straight away for me tho, it did and didn’t. I knew I was having a girl & I expected her to look less wrinkled and swollen lol when I looked over at her I must of asked if they were sure she was a girl 😂🙈 but once i fed her and changed her I started to feel it, the love was there when she was born but the bonding didn’t come from her on my breasts straight after birth (I was still kinda traumatised the birth wasn’t great & I was made to feel useless all the way through) it came when I was on my own with her, without anyone taking over ☺️
It will happen, I felt closer in my other pregnancies to babies before they were born, my first however took its time until she was in my arms just me and her ☺️
It’s actually normal to feel this way. Once she’s born it all changes x
Hormones will do this so people get postnatal depression but when child comes u dont feel same talk to someone no one will juge u x
Talk to your doctor about prenatal depression.