Hi can I have a ppp? I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years. When we fi…

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Hi can I have a ppp?

I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years. When we first got together he told me he’d only slept with one person (his ex wife), I believed him.
After an argument a few weeks ago he told me he’d actually slept with 40-60 escorts and a woman he hooked up with! Not every time was protected!
His excuse for not telling me in the beginning was because he was embarrassed as technically he was still with his wife, they just weren’t having sex and the relationship had gone south.
I got with him about 4 months after they officially split up and I feel stupid in believing he’d only slept with one person. He even made me feel dirty about how many people I’d slept with (8).
I’m not pissed about how many he slept with its the lying about it and potentially putting my health at risk as he never got tested. I’m always careful about getting a clean bill of health before I hook up with someone and making sure they do as well and I know I should have done this time round but his lie lead me to believe he’d be clean!
He doesn’t understand why I’m pissed off about all this and he said if he told me when we 1st starting dating then he knew I wouldn’t of carried on the relationship. He also got annoyed when I told him to go get tested, (still waiting results).

Am I in the wrong? I totally think my feelings are justified but maybe they’re not 🤔
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