Hi can I have a ppp? In need of some advice on what to do…my fiancé has ex fro…
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Hi can I have a ppp?
In need of some advice on what to do…my fiancé has ex from hell! He pays maintenance over £300 a month, never misses a payment. He never sees his girl on his own it’s always with the ex for a few hours once maybe twice a week as she can’t seem to leave her daughter on her own she’s really really protective. Now every month she ALWAYS demands him for stuff like new cot mattress, fan for her room etc which we don’t mind doing small things however the latest week she’s been demanding he buy her a brand spanking new £300 pram onto of the maintenance, saying stuff like oh it better have this and this. Now we’ve got a baby on the way and a I’ve got a child from previous, we always end up struggling the end of the month and I don’t think he should have to buy this pram, yes contribute to it but she gets so much already, we’ve got hardly anything for this new baby and feel like I can’t really say anything about the situation as she will stop him from seeing her if he doesn’t do it 😞 is this acceptable for the mum to ask??
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Can you reply, it’s not through the csa, but the csa think he should be paying around 400, he earns good money but gets taxed nearly £2000 each time it’s ridiculous so we come out with nowhere near what it says he earns. I’ve said that 300 a month is more than enough and is used to get things she needs, but she uses her daughter as a weapon. She stopped him seeing her for 5 months and he’s only just started to build the relationship up to the point she knows who he is, and he’s Scared to do court and lose all that as she’ll 100%stop him again 😞 it’s so sad how some women are! X
Can you reply, I know how ridiculous it is, she absolutely hates my guts, never met me or knows anything about me. She’s been horrible about my child the fact that my fiancé has taken him on. She’s a nasty piece of work things she deserves the world. I’m not saying he’s Scared he’ll lose in court I meant he’s Scared he’ll lose his relationship with his daughter. His ex is a very manipulative person and has a very warped sense of what’s right. I’ve never known someone who’s so wrong but thinks she’s right in every way…she’s definitely the devil lol
oh my god I I would hire a hitman and shoot her like! totlyvtaki g the piss and taken him for a mug purely through jealousy he has moved on with someone else and she doesn’t like it one bit! 300 a month from the father should more than cover what she needs as she will be getting child tax and child benefit for child. I would tell him to phone csa and ask them for their advice. she’s using the bairn as a weapon. how old is said child to be needing a new pram x
She sounds like she’s still got him where she wants him.. His paying child maintenance and I dunno if his run the csa but that sounds far to much if they only have one child.. Unless he has a good job.. Anyway once u have ur baby her money will also go down by law.. Tell ur partner to phone the csa not to go threw them just for a calculation. Also I would tell her the £300 she gets off him will be just enough to buy the buggy.. Shed taking the piss if u ask me xxx
£300 a month for one child!?? Wow!!! What a nice man .. my kids sperm donor can’t even pay £1 a month for his 2 kids .. as he has ‘other’ things to pay for! Sounds like she is being greedy .. don’t get me wrong his child and he should pay but she seems to be taking the piss!
I’m a single mum of a little girl, her dad sees her for little hours a week and pays £50 a week, but I would never dream of asking for him to buy stuff for her, maybe ask for a little help towards it but she’s basically taking the piss out of you!
&& you are letting her, refuse to do it! There is no way she’s spending the £300 a month on top of all benefits she gets! Don’t do it put your foot down xx
Sorry but she’s being greedy! She will be getting the relevant benefits for her baby so the £300 a month she receives can pay for that pushchair she wants! I would be going down the court route, he will be given access and access alone no doubt! Will make things much easier for all!
No she’s takin the piss !! He pays a substantial amount of child maintenance which should cover these things she is askin for !! Speak to ur man and explain h have a child and one on the way , you need your money that is left after paying the 300 child maintenance which is quite substantial in its self x
Im not being funny but that £300 a month maintenance should pay for all those thing and more thats alot of money she shouldn’t be asking for more. If she wants a new pram she should go and buy it herself
if I was him id be telling her to run and jump off a bridge if she thinks he should be buying a new pram or even going half I don’t fuckin think so!! jog on bunny boiler!!!
I’d tell her to fuck off. £300 a month maintenance ce plus has child tax and child benefit coming in. Tell her that’s what child tax is for……her baby
Just call maintenance and get a proper calculation from them.. maintence is supposed to cover everything his child needs.. i cant imagine shes spending that just on the child.. ur better of calling and getting a correct amount to pay.. because unless hes earning a HUGE wage £300 is far to much to be paying out
wow 300 a month for one child I get 100 a month for 2 works out to be 12.50 per child a week doesn’t cover naff all she’s just being greedy xx
why does she need a new pram? and if he paying 300 a m9nth no I wouldn’t ask for more for a pram. yes maybe go half or get a cheaper pram
No she gets 300 thats all she should get. Even that is too much. She is taking him for a mug x
300 pounds a month is a good amount of money for the one child , she’s taking the Mick , if the child needs anything then the 300 should cover it , if she wants to go and buy something that costs more then she will have to fund that herself , he needs to tell her straight or tell him to talk her to court for access on his own and have it in a court order the payment ect x
If she wants that pushchair she gets 300 a month from him. She either saves up out of that money or find a cheaper one. What a piss taking bitch🙄
has a calculation been done taking your child into account as they deduct a certain amount a month for any children living with him also would go down again once you have your own baby I would also seek legal advice as to regards of access she can’t keep dictating to him as an when he can see his own child he seems a responsible man from what u have put I very much doubt a judge would agree with the mother in this case your partner would be given more chance to see his daughter then an she won’t be able to dictate to him what he can an can not do
You can do a calculation online and tells you everything. I get 300 a month but that’s for 3 children.
There’s no way that a baby costs over £600 a month, she’s taking your partner for a mug. Id point blank refuse to buy a new pushchair aswell as paying maintenance. Bloody hate women who use children as a bargaining tool 😡
The 300 a month is to buy what her daughter needs get him to tell her he isn’t putting towards it
no its not I get maintenance from my son’s dad and I use that 2 cover every thing I need, sometime I ask 4 a extra £10 £20 but that’s only ever if I need it. she’s taking it partner for a mug, ur better off saying he either buys things she needs or pays maintenance. x
No it’s not stop !!! Read it back and you will see how ridiculous it is …….
Just say you’ll take it through csa from now on then I bet she stops
Bet she’s on benefits aswell sat on her arse demanding money 💰