Hi can I have a ppp So basically me and my partner have been together 8 years, …
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Hi can I have a ppp
So basically me and my partner have been together 8 years, we got together when we were really young. He told me about a year into our relationship he has klienfelters syndrome, it basically means there’s no chance of us concieving because he has no sperm. When he told me I didn’t really mind as being as young as we were i didn’t want a family at that point. Me and my sister are really close and she’s been struggling to conceive so I’ve always had someone to talk to about the situation, however recently she’s found out she’s pregnant. I’m so happy for her but also can’t help feeling jealous. Since she’s found out I’ve resented my partner and I know it’s so wrong but it’s just how I feel. At the back of my mind I always hoped there would be some sort of way of having our own child but the more I look into it the more I know our chances are so slim. I feel so down and depressed knowing I will never have our own baby. My partner always brushes it under the carpet and says there will be a way but I really don’t think there will. The question is do I stay with him and accept there will never be a chance of having a family? Or do I leave him and hope one day I will eventually have my own family? I know people will say “well you knew the situation when you got with him” but I’m 24 now and I feel ready to start a family and with my sister pregnant I feel so bitter and I know I shouldn’t.
Please no bashing, thank you xx
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After eight years, I would stay. Perhaps consider a sperm donor or adoption. But you need to sit him down and really get him to talk about it. Make sure he knows you don’t blame him whatsoever, and that it’s not his fault he cannot conceive. But that you’d like to expand your family and now is the time to dicuss how.