Hi, can I have a private post please. Does anyone else dread it when thier step …

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Hi, can I have a private post please. Does anyone else dread it when thier step children come? My husband has 2 from a previous relationship. Thier mother isn’t the best of parents from what I can gather, but the kids are practically feral. No manners, disrespectful, manipulative, control issues, destructive, rude, they tell lies, they’re nasty to other children, they have no respect. Theyre deceitful, and will deliberately set out to upset everyone. Some of thier personality traits really concern me. They have no respect for anyone nor anything, they deliberately destroy not only thier own things but veryobe ekses, including furnishings and carpets. it’s all easy come easy go. They completely ignore me when I speak to them, even when I’m just generally saying hello & asking how thier week was. They do what they want when they want. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship, he’s the best husband, my best friend. We never argue, except EVERYTIME they come. It makes me feel bad but I’m filled with dread at the sheer thought Of them coming. Thier behaviour is vulgar. My husbands caught in the middle, and I think feels guilty thier mother doesn’t let him see them as often as he’d like, I know he’s deeply embarrassed by the behaviour, but feels guilty to chastise them as he only sees them every other week. I do understand that but it’s out of control. The holidays are coming up & he wants to do a family holiday. I’m filled with dread and so my my children. Non of us want to go. I really have tried with his children, his I feel isn’t a choice, I feel guilty for feeling that way, but I can’t help it. Everything I do just gets thrown in my face 😞 Id never leave my husband but I’m terrified of them getting older and where this will lead 😒 Am I the only one in this position?
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