Hi, Can I have a private post please? On the 6th of November I found out my hus…

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Hi, Can I have a private post please? On the 6th of November I found out my husband was cheating on me. I went through his phone and found text messages. Tbh I didn’t think he slept with the girl but I asked and he said he did. Surprisingly I was willing to forgive him and make things work. I told him in order for us to work together to fix this he must seize contact with this woman. He said he would. Obviously the trust I gave for him has been broken and as a result I decided to check his phone to make sure he wasn’t still in touch with her. Low and behold I found a conversation, which to be fair to him she initiated but he ended it by saying he’s with the guys ( he was home with our daughter and I). I didn’t say anything and so decided to give him more time to remove this person from his life. So yesterday o checked again and o saw that they had chatted on snapchat. I asked him if he was still in contact with her and he said no. I said I saw that you chatted on Snapchat- I don’t know what was said because it had disappeared. He then admitted that she said happy birthday to him and he said thank you. This is a lie because the chat happened after his birthday. My husband then got annoyed saying i shouldn’t be looking through his phone etc. I said I don’t usually which is why he got away with sleeping with this woman for about a year but can he really blame me for checking? He then said he isn’t going to try making this work and I said to him that he doesn’t need to do anything. That was the end of the conversation and we haven’t spoken since. I know he is trying but I don’t understand why he didn’t just block her so she can’t message him anymore. I know I shouldn’t be going through his phone but hey that’s where we’re at right now. Can anyone advise on how to handle this situation or what o should have done better? Thank you
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