Hi can I have a private post please ? So I have an 21 month old daughter with m…

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Hi can I have a private post please ?

So I have an 21 month old daughter with my partner of 6 years, my daughter is very clingy and always wants me, anytime I leave the room she screams the place down and starts hyperventilating, she will not settle with her dad what so ever and hardly ever cuddles him or sits with him no matter what he does, this hurts him deeply 💔 also my partner has mental health issues and has a low temperature( has never hurt her or been bad to her and has tried seeking help before anyone gets that idea) sometimes shouts which I have said doesn’t help.
So tonight I said to him I’m going for a bath Ill bring her down with me(like I always do) but he said why not leave her up here so you can enjoy your bath in peace, so I said ok thanks, but k owing she will do this, so yeah half way through it she stared losing it, then just as I was coming out the bath I heard him getting annoyed so it made it worse, so I came upstairs and calmed everything down and then we started arguing😠 I said you need to keep calm when she does this it is making it worse or not helping and he lost it with me saying don’t tell me what to do and don’t tell me how to raise my child ! I lost it and said I am sick of you loosing it all the time and making out like a tell you what to do all I’m trying to do is help you, but said to him I am not going to help you anymore , I was angry, but he has walked out and don’t know one if he coming back ,💔💔

Sorry for long post , don’t even know know why I. Writing this weather it’s for advice or just letting off some steam xx
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