Hi can I have a private post please, Sorry for the paragraph I need some adv…

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Hi can I have a private post please,

Sorry for the paragraph 🙈

I need some advice about work I literally don’t think I can cope with it any longer, I love my job but it’s the people I work with I can’t cope with, my manager is awful she is a first class bully! She speaks down to people, singles people out and god help you if you question her on anything! The other girl I work closely with I thought was a friend she has also had issues with this manager in the past but now I am starting to realise that she is her little minion if that makes sense? I caught her slating me and saying one thing to me and another to other colleagues, when i am not there I am constantly worrying have I done this? did I do that? and second guessing myself because I know what’s to come if I make a mistake or forget something. I understand that if I make a mistake it can have serious consequences but i am human everyone makes the odd mistake! I think it’s getting to much for me, I have seen the extent my manager will go to when somebody goes against her or pisses her off she will literally threaten them with serious things like reporting them so that they can’t work in the sector I am in again, this really worries me I have actually seen her dig for dirt on people to either sack them or report them with …. I’m off sick at the moment but instead of concentrating on getting better I am lay here thinking have I done this have I remembered this to the point where I am giving myself anxiety I’m pretty sure work shouldn’t be taking over my life like this!…. it gets to the point where I’m literally giving myself anxiety and stress constantly and it’s all because of her I know it is if she wasnt the way she is then I wouldn’t be worrying all the time. I’m not like this I no i am good at my job and there have been so many mistakes made by other members off staff that I have just rectified myself instead of dropping them in it but they always seem very keen to drop me in it when it’s my mistake!!! I don’t no what to do I can’t be out of a job as I have bills but at the same time I am going to make myself ill staying there!
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