Hi can I have a private post please? I started talking to a guy on POF and we m…

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Hi can I have a private post please?

I started talking to a guy on POF and we met up in January. We got on well so we met up often. Then he tells me in February his ex, who he had been with for 4 years and owned a house with in Dover, is coming back up from Dover for 2 weeks to talk and see if they can get back together as they were on a break. There was a rumour she was pregnant too. But he didn’t know who he wanted.

Originally she was meant to be staying at his house then at her parents. Anyway he decided he wanted to be with me but she wanted to meet to chat about something. She was pregnant.

So he said he had told her he was with me but would be there for the baby.

We became ‘official’ and continued to meet up and that. But he never invited me over his house but I lived a hour away, don’t drive and it was easier for him to come to me.

Anyway continue on like this till the other day, and we have a argument. We argued quite a lot anyway.
I have always had a gut instinct something wasn’t right with the ex situation but he had a answer for everything, he texted everyday all day and saw me a lot – how would he do that when he was with her 🤔

Anyway after the argument I decided to message her and it turns out that the baby was planned, he’d been living with her and was still with her. I obviously told her what had been going on with me and him and sent screenshots to prove what I was saying.

Anyway now he’s messaging saying he doesn’t know what he wants, and asking to meet to explain and apologise. But asks if we will be having sex.

I think his ex is thinking about taking him back as she is 30 weeks pregnant but do I show her the screenshots? Or leave it?

She messaged yesterday asking to see screenshots of what he’d been saying to me but I told her she can’t trust him very much to have to ask me to prove what he’s saying.

Thank you
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