Hi, can I have a private post please? I’m 39 weeks pregnant and I don’t know wh…
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Hi, can I have a private post please?
I’m 39 weeks pregnant and I don’t know what to do. I was with the father in the beginning but it wasn’t a healthy relationship, he would do things to me against my will and sex didn’t always feel consensual. We broke up when I was about 3 months pregnant, I got another partner but the father made me have sex with him even though I kept saying no. He kept calling me horrible names and would always argue with me over messages and making me feel small and rubbish. He tried to make me get an abortion multiple time but I didn’t want to and then he told me and other people that he didn’t want anything to do with my baby and that he wishes he wasn’t the dad. After the first scan he saw how much attention he got from it and then decided he wanted something to do with it so that he could get more girls to talk to him and has tried manipulating me. When we were together he was always so controlling and just horrible. Whilst I was pregnant I agreed to meet up with him but he was angry and was punching a bus stop that I was infront of pretending it was me and something fell off the bus stop and hit me on the shoulder then he wouldn’t leave me alone. After all this he still continued to talk to me in horrible ways and when I told him he was stressing me out and hurting the baby he wouldn’t listen and said he didn’t care and kept being horrible anyway. I don’t know what to do to, I don’t want him to see my baby, but I also don’t want my baby growing up not knowing who his dad is. Help will be greatly appreciated.
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Sorry hun but dont put him on the bc if hes violent and controlling over u change ur number and move and when little one wants to know always keep a photo and just be honest with little one or let ur ex have access is a safe environment thats all i can say