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Hi could I get a private post please? Sorry just don’t really know who to talk …

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Hi could I get a private post please?
Sorry just don’t really know who to talk to and need to let this out.
I’m heartbroken for my eldest daughter (4) when she was a baby I entered a relationship with someone as the years past she started calling him daddy as she doesn’t have her biological dad (his choice) anyway he agreed to it ok’d it said he would treat her like a daughter. Last year we had another little girl too. Me and my partner live separate now but he comes to watch the kids so I can go to work then leaves again. I was just talking about supporting me with the kids to him and he said he isn’t going to come over on his days off to watch the kids so that I can earn a living. So I said fine il get a childminder you can chip in with the fees. Do you know what he said? Wouldn’t dare pay for another mans kid she isn’t my daughter is she I’m not a mug I’m not paying for another mans child but I’ll pay for my daughter”
Well am heartbroken I’ve told him I’m not going to let her call him daddy anymore and that it’s disgusting he can do that for her. He saying I live in a fairy tale world if I think he’s going to pay for a kid that’s not his. She’s been calling him dad for 3 year am honestly hurt so much by this 😭 what do u think should be done girls? Honest opinions? Honestly can’t take anymore. I never see him unless he comes to watch the kids because he’s that much of a sour person I can’t enjoy his company. Advice girls?
Thanks
Xxxx
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