Hi could I have a post please, :( I met a guy and I had a baby with him (he’s 6…

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Hi could I have a post please, 🙁

I met a guy and I had a baby with him (he’s 6 weeks old now) we broke up 2 months ago but after son was born we tried again at us (he’s living in my house supporting him etc) I went on his old phone and 2 weeks after having his kid he has been telling another woman he loves her, wants her, dating her, I confronted him about it and at first he denied it but then admitted it later (they were dating) I feel hurt cause I only had his baby 2 weeks before and we was getting back together (we were engaged too) so he’s not doing oat for his son and I’m doing everything and I’m so tired, my son is poorly so cries constantly for the 6 weeks and no sleep, I’ve lost 1 stone cause don’t have time to eat and I’ve also got a 2 year old from a previous relationship.
He’s doing nothing no night feeds, no changing nappies, no feeding, no washing, no bathing, doesn’t interact play, so my son cries when I ask him to hold my son but when I hold him I get smiles etc
(Sorry I’m trying not to use names)
We have been arguing everyday for weeks cause he doesn’t respect me as he told the girl he loves her and cause he won’t step up and be a dad and I’m nagging hoping he change.
So he went to work last night (first night on the job) and when he finished he went to his dad’s 2 hours away from me and he’s ignoring my calls, messages, video calls, I’ve asked him loads to come back cause I need help but he isn’t,

I can forgive him for what he said to that girl (I think) cause he felt unloved and unwanted (but so have I and I didn’t do oat) but he’s not helping being a parent and I’m struggling. (I have no family or friends for help)
So he said he call me when he goes to work about us (I must have rang him 40 times and messaged 30 times) but now I think will he say we get back together cause he’s got a home, and I buy him everything he’s wanted (Xbox phones games etc) or break up.
But if we get back together then I think it’s rude that he’s left for 24 hours and not asked about his son and ignoring me, (he always leaves for 7-14 hours on bike rides, pub, snooker etc) so I’ll feel silly for letting him back in but I don’t want us to break up and I don’t know why he’s threatened to take my son of me heaps, knowing it scare me cause my daughter went into care for a month when she was born.

He’s got a lock on his phone, won’t add me on his fb, hudes his phone, has it with him 24/7 even when he goes to sleep he puts it under mattress.
I don’t have no friends so everyday I don’t see no one I feel isolated.
I don’t know what I’m after I just feel hurt he’s ignoring me and not bothered helping with his son,
🙁🙁🙁Xxx
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