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Hi could i have a ppp Hey Ladies! Please tell me if i am in the wrong here pleas…

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Hi could i have a ppp Hey Ladies! Please tell me if i am in the wrong here please. My boyfriend used to work a 7.5 hours drive away (for 2 years), so had to live where he worked and would come home on his days off and facetime me every night. He now works a 1.5 hour drive away and he has just got a women he used to work with to move to where he works now and she has just got a flat there. 2 nights ago he came to my work to see me before going to work himself and made a passing comment that he might stay at this womans flat (as its nearer to his work), but he said it in front of someone else i was with so i didn’t want to argue. Then he facetimed me at midnight from this womans flat, i was too mad to talk with him and couldn’t say anything as i was obviously on loudspeaker! I have just had some bad news about a relative so am not in a good frame of mind anyway which is why i am writing this post to see if i should be mad or am i over re-acting. The lady is older than him and i have met her once so its not that i feel he is cheating on me but i am mad that he feels its ok to stay at another womans flat regardless of who it is rather than come home (i highly doubt he would accept this if it were me staying at a mans house!), Its the way he just said it in passing and then did it, also because of the bad news i have just had i feel he should be trying to be there for me (even though he can’t do anything to help) He is the manager so i don’t think its appropriate staying at a female member of staffs house and its not like if he did stay i could chat to him on facetime with someone else there listening to me! He has called me a prick over it and said i embarrassed him hanging up on him when he did try to facetime me when he stayed the other night. We are currently not speaking but as i said i’m not sure if its just my emotions right now or if i am in the right to angry – sorry for the long post ladies but what do you think?
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