Hi could I have a private post please as I have friends in your groups and don’t…
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Hi could I have a private post please as I have friends in your groups and don’t want interference from them. My partner and I have always been very open and always had access to each other’s phones etc. I noticed this morning when I went to change the song on his phone that he’s put Touch ID on his phone which I ignored up first because it doesn’t bother me not being able to get on it but found it weird. Around lunch time we were playing games on our phones together and he got a message from an unsaved number saying “are you alive? x” and he quickly hid it from me. I asked who it was and he said it was his mum which seemed weird because his mum doesn’t text like that or send kisses, he then later changed his story again when he hid another message from me saying it was my neighbour who we have problems with and he isn’t meant to message (not me saying that it’s the police) and said they’re planning a surprise for me so he can’t show me. The neighbour wouldn’t do this as I said police issues. Eventually he said he’d show me his phone to prove it was the neighbour however was stood for a few minutes before he showed me (I think deleting messages) then showed me a conversation on Facebook messenger from 10am this morning when I know 100% it was a phone number on whatsapp and the last message would’ve been around 7pm so he was obviously deleting whatever the actual conversation was with whoever it was. What’s everyone’s advice here? I’m really anxious as I’ve been cheated on in the past and we’ve been together coming up to 3 years and our baby is due in 2 months time so my pregnancy hormones are making me go insane over this.
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Sorry another add. I asked him why he showed me two conversations with none of them being on the right social platform and that first message being in neither conversations. He’s now changed it AGAIN saying it’s a best friend from school however I’ve met all his “best friends” and never once heard this persons name and I’m fairly sure the picture in the 7pm message preview was a blonde girl before he hid his phone.
Sorry could I add to that, when he showed me the messages to his mum and this person none of them had that original message in them
My ex started being the same way with his phone,stupidity at the time he underestimated our son then 3 letting him see his password thinking “his only a child what can he do ” and left his phone on the sofa thinking it was safe and our son unlocked it and handed it to me,it was open on his texts which turned out to be him cheating
Doesn’t sound good sorry Hun 🙁
Would advise speaking to him but obviously you have and he’s mugging you off.
Nice hard ultimatum required I think!
Tell me the truth or get out kinda thing, and follow it through! xx
It doesn’t sound good to me either I’m sorry 😞
I would tell him you know something’s going on and if he doesn’t tell you the full truth then your gone, and follow through with it, you deserve better. If he loved you he wouldn’t be cheating xx
Myself and husband have same passwords on our phones. We don’t have passwords 2 hide from each other.. How ever. If he suddenly changed 2 that and secretive it’s obvious y.. If U love some1 should be no secrets and no lies
Sorry I think he’s doing the dirty to change his story that much my ex years ago did exactly the same thing turned out it was multiple women
If he’s deleting stuff then he knows he’s doing something he shouldn’t be
Id tell him he has till the morning to tell the truth or hes gone x
Sorry sounds weird to me I’d throw him out I wouldn’t trust him but that’s me could be something else x
Could he just be helping someone plan a baby shower or something for you? 🤔
You can get an app or something so you can read deleted messages.
Sounds to me he is hiding something
Up to no gd I’m guessing
Sorry I feel the same somethings not right sorry xx