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Hi could I have a private post please I met my partner when I was 15 and he wa…

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Hi could I have a private post please

I met my partner when I was 15 and he was 18, his sister has a son (who was around 11months at the time) and could only be with her son if she was supervised by my partner or his mum because her boyfriend (the little boys dad) was a danger to him and she still chose to be with him so it was to make sure she didn’t invite him round. A year later when I was 16 we started renting and he started sleeping at our house mon, tue, wed nights and I’d pick him up from his childminders after collage, bath him, give him tea and play with him until my partner got home and then it was more or less his bedtime.

Anyway around a year after that my partners sister sorted her self out, got her own house, got a new boyfriend and had another child, she fought in court for her son back and she was aloud her son to live with her and social services dropped everything. Obviously then the little boy permanently lived at his mums house with his new brother and step dad we decided to then start our own family, we now have a baby and our own house.

BUT a couple of days ago we found out that she has been inviting the little boys Dad round to her house when her current partner has been at work! So he has taken his son and the little boy is with his grandma at the moment, she said we may need to look after him again.

Am I wrong to say I don’t want to? We have our own baby now and he’s in a good routine and he would have to sleep in his bedroom too, plus we can’t afford, we didn’t get a penny for him last time or even a thankyou
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  • If he legally shouldn’t be seeing his child then I would report to social services.. otherwise I’d say sorry but I have my own child and family to think about.

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