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Hi. Could I have a private post please. I’m so annoyed right now so will probabl…

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Hi. Could I have a private post please. I’m so annoyed right now so will probably be a long post πŸ˜‚πŸ™ˆMe and my sons dad are in an argument *again πŸ™„* I’m absolutely furious wit him right now. He hasn’t seen he’s son for 3 weeks he’s ment to have him 3/4 weekends a month. When he paid me last ( any many other times before) he paid me much less then the agreed amount because we had an argument. Even though he payed the rest of he’s kids in full, he has 3 other kids with 2 other women. So anyway with him paying me short with out telling me till he paid me 2 days late which set me back with bills etc and left me with no money spare. My one year old lost he’s shoe yesterday and I asked he’s dad seen as he payed him short if he could give me the money to get him some or pay for them and have them delievered to my house or even by him some when he comes for him today!! All I have had is abuse on how I should spend my money and telling me he won’t pay for them an that if I can’t afford my son he will take him till I sort my stuff out and I’m in a place to afford him 😳 after paying me short and later on admitting he doesn’t have the money to buy him any! He’s not offering to help in anyway to help get shoes for our son he’s just saying I get my maintinance next week I’ll have to wait till then and if he needs them to lend tho money!! So now I’m sat here raging 😀 and I’m thinking Iv been broke up with the guy 9 months he’s seen he’s son probably a total of 5 months out of the 9 didn’t pay at 1st because he moved house so I tried to help him out. Month later he wouldn’t pay as it was he’s daughters birthday but then ended up asking me to lend him money for it and me still caring for the kids did it! But since then things have got more nasty he moved on and took me to court for access but will refuse to do anything for he’s son then have him Friday nights. And pay around 10 pound a week for he’s son when he’s working a very good job and lives in he’s girlfriends bought house and going on holidays. I know what he does in he’s personal life is nothing to do with me but when he’s doing that but won’t pay full money or help get shoes for he’s son I think it’s an absolute joke!! So now I’m sat here thinking why should I send him tonight if I’m the one who lives many miles away doing it alone anyway whilst he has 24 hours parenting and won’t even pay properly to help of the upbringing of he’s son so why should I send him??!! But then I obviously feel sorry for my baby who’s would be on the 4th week of not seeing he’s daddy! I just don’t no what to do!! Sorry for the long rant guys! Am I over reacting and to send him or am i well in my right!? Thank you
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