Hi! Could you please post as anon please? I’m not a mum but would like some advi…

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Hi! Could you please post as anon please? I’m not a mum but would like some advice from you lovely ladies…
Back in December I met this guy through work, he was a client of mine, him and I got talking etc etc. he had a girlfriend, I had a boyfriend. We both left our partners for each other and things are now pretty serious. I decided that I wanted to move down south to be closer to him and also to give myself a successful career as I felt I wasn’t getting anywhere. I’m 21 and want to start making something more of myself. So I moved to the Brisbane area in March. Him and I get a long great, he’s honestly the best, we go and do stuff together, go to each other’s places, go out for dinner, all that jazz. Anyway, I have since caught him out twice messaging other girls because I had a gut feeling that something was up, and it was. His excuse was that he didn’t think I was going to stick around, so I gave him one last chance and as far as I know he isn’t messaging other girls. He has however since had his ex move in to his house for “financial purposes”, as he purchased a 4wd as he’s struggling with the repayments between that and his house and his job has just changed, as much as he reassures me that they are just friends and that he sees her as a sister, I just can’t help but wonder what goes on when I’m not around. I haven’t been to his place since she moved in, and she messaged me prior to moving in to make sure that I was ok with it, I kind of had to be since he gave me an ultimatum and she had no where else to go. How would you ladies deal with this? I do believe that he’s the one who came along out of the blue and is meant for me, but this whole “living with his ex” thing is really affecting me. She is hardly ever there though, apparently. I also have anxiety and he doesn’t believe that anxiety is a real thing so he doesn’t understand how it makes me feel. I understand that she is living there to help him out financially and for the fact the house will be an investment house and that he needs help to get things done around the house for when he rents it out, but how do I know she wasn’t just lying to me and they’re both playing me?? I honestly feel like the third wheel and he won’t make her move out. I don’t want to leave him but I’m sick of being hurt and having to try to prove my worth. What would you ladies do in this messed up situation? I’m not usually one to stick around for shit as I know I’m better than that but something keeps telling me he’s worth it… X
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