Hi could you private post please? So well I’m looking for advice to help me get…
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Hi could you private post please?
So well I’m looking for advice to help me get out of this situation and what I can do to make life easier for me ?
I’m a mum of 2 one is 6 weeks the other is 12 months, anyways I’m at home slot obviously and my mum comes over almost everyday, all is well and good and she helps when she comes over and I love that, but what I don’t love is I feel like she only comes over and helps so she doesn’t feel guilty about taking stuff from me,
Like she came over Monday for fuel, Tuesday for smokes and $20, Wednesday for $120, Thursday cause my sister was doing a course near my house and she asked me for money but I didn’t have any on me? Basically for the last week and a half she’s been over almost every day to ask for something other wise I won’t see her.
It makes me want to cry, like she won’t even have my son for 1 night and when she does it cost me like $150 and she tells me not to drop him off til late afternoon and she rings me by 7 in the morning to pick him up 🙁
But apart from when I don’t give her money or anything she doesn’t visit me at all, like I won’t see her.
I always shout her places but the never once shouted me back..
I feel guilty sometimes for being cruel and I won’t stand up or say anything because 6 years ago my dad was cheating and I knew about it and I didn’t tell her, well I eventually did but it was complicated and I shouldn’t even of been in that situation (15 at the Time) but for years she’s always said its my fault etc so I think that has something to do with everything as well..
I’m still adjusting to having 2 kids but I’m getting the hang of it but it’s so nice when I have some company throughout the day cause I have anxiety and having someone else here makes me not so paranoid etc.
Just need some advice on what to do with my mum and tips to make my life easier with 2 kids?
She is taking roughly $500 a week off me, I feel like I’m paying for a service from her and it’s costing me, like I just want her to want to see her grandchildren without me paying for it? If that makes sense. 🙁
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