Hi Hun can you post please. I apologise it’s a long one. Some of you may reme…

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Hi Hun can you post please.
I apologise it’s a long one.

Some of you may remember I posted a couple of months back about my 2.5 year old refusing to go near her biological father.

Well things are no easier. She is still refusing. It’s been a total of 5 months. Some of these visits he has cancelled and the rest she has refused to go with him or let him near her.
For this duration I have gone out of my way to try and build their bond again. Going to play centre, park or allowed my ex to play in the garden with her with me there (as she won’t stay near him and screams until she is blue in the face and hysterical) but this is now taking its toll on me as I’m civil for her sake and make out like we are one big happy extended family for her but inside I still hold alot of hurt from his lies in court and can not forgive. So as you can imagine it is hard for me to be in his company, I do it for my daughter.

What I’m wondering is what would you girls do? Would you just keep going and see if it gets easier? Or would you give up? She doesn’t seem to be budging on what ever grudge she is holding, ex says he may have slightly lost his temper with her back in march (last time she went willingly) but he did not hurt her. I don’t know what to think 😔
Advice would be very welcome I’m feeling so drained with it all. Thank you.
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