Hi! I posted yesterday, but it didnt get approved.. unless was something i shoul…

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Hi! I posted yesterday, but it didnt get approved.. unless was something i shouldnt have posted. “So fiance has daughter from previous relationship.( however she might not be his.. his ex told him at 7 months pregnant that this could be the case.. they still dont know the truth but that is between them) She is 4 years old. But her and her mother dont live in the same country as us.. he still does his part by providing for her every month etc. When we got engaged, he let her mum know out of courtesy.. she had a hissy fit.. so fast forward to last year, i got pregnant in nov, but i said not to tell her straight away as i didnt want to tell anyone until 3 months.. i had a mc the year before.. he respected my wishes, then let her know after 3 months.. again she threw a fit but said congrats anyway.. so then we had a gender scan and it slipped out in convo between us that he let her know we are having a boy..dont know if he told her first or if she asked first.. but she told their daughter, which is fine. So she knows shes having a little brother. However i just didnt see the need to let them know we are having a boy, he could have just let them know afterhe is born… now i want to ask opinions… so when our boy is here, i dont feel that he should send them pics as he will be sending them through his daughters mums phone.. dont see the need for her to have them. However i dont have an issue with him vid calling her phone to show their daughter, as this is how they talk anyway via vid calling… am i wrong? I wanted to let him know this now before our baby is born so he is clear on not sending photos to the mum… when his daughter has her own phone, then thats different…”

I wanted it to be posted anonymous xx
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