Hi Im just looking for advice really and to be sure im going to be doing the ri…

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Hi
Im just looking for advice really and to be sure im going to be doing the right thing.
I live with my ex partner * not by choice as i said no and asked him too leave then told him too * who moved out about 18 months ago due to his temper infront of our 3 year old son and a few weeks ago he moved out of his current accommodation because he didnt like who he lived with 😒 then quit his job with no means of signing on or getting another job or another place to stay and just came to my house with his stuff literally refusing to leave.
ringing the police to have him removed is not an option hes from a respectable family and they refuse to help me he smokes weed daily and expects me to pay for which I cannot afford I tried not giving him money but he takes things to far he doesnt care what he says or does infront of our child
he is a happy little boy most of the time and does adore his dad most of the time.
I get called a rat, whore, bum,lowlife etc…. and I know the saying sticks and stones….but it gets to me after a while i get screamed at for not washing his clothes which he can do it himself screamed today at me because theyd not been washed in 4 days but i did mine and my boys stuff last night like i do every night and some of his was in there he over exadurates all the time which is really annoying..
we have never got on proply literally kicking of as i type this because I wont let him pull my fireplace out for money that could of possibly fallen behind it for weed and tabacco which will ruin my fireplace.
he has terrified my dog which i know sounds silly but i am rehoming him tomorrow because hes not happy anymore and deserves a better home.
anyways im looking at taking my son on friday and leaving to my familys house which is about 300 miles away would you say this is me being over dramatic as i have warned him i will be doing this if he hasnt left and says im causing drama in wanting to leave as i dont want to do wrong by my son because sometimes his dad is alright he will slightly tidy up and help me and has let me sleep in 3 times since being here and looked after our son he tries to be nice on the odd occasion and if im not grateful enough will kick off but i carnt live like this i dont mind moving i just dont want to be nasty and feel guilty.
thanks in advance.x
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