Hi – Just wondering if you could post this anonymously for me as I am wanting so…

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Hi – Just wondering if you could post this anonymously for me as I am wanting some advice and reassurance. I am currently pregnant with my second bub and I have opted not to find out the sex of this one. I have a 16 month old son and a 7 year old step son already so will be happy of course with either sex – just am looking forward to the element of surprise at the birth. In saying this – I feel that at the 20 week scan I made it clear that I did not want to find out the gender of the baby but said that my partner allowed to find out which we agreed that he would not tell me to spoil it for me. The Tech was great saying that nope hubby wasn’t allowed to know if I didn’t want to know. But when it came to that area he said “oh you could probably guess though”……….. which I thought straight away it must be boy as it must of been obvious…then he went on to say that the baby was flexing his with the emphasis on the his then followed it up with or her muscles……..Just felt let down…. DH says that he technically didn’t give it away but I feel like he had……….and feel that the surprise is ruined…. Would this be me just over reacting from all the hormones? Since the scan I have been thinking oh well it is another boy which I am so happy just disappointing as I wanted a surprise this time round – Any one else experience this? Gut instinct doesn’t tell me much this time round but I just keep thinking boy……….
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