Hi PPP I’ve been in a relationship for 3 and a half years and have a baby by hi…
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Hi PPP
I’ve been in a relationship for 3 and a half years and have a baby by him. He is very controlling what I wear who I talk to (no male friends)
Arguments constantly, the atmosphere is so tense with my children around. He never really seems happy and I’m battling depression. I’ve had to go on tablets because I’m so down but I know if he left I would be happier, I feel like sometimes I’ve just had it and I want to do something silly. He likes to go out and drink at least once a week and will stay all night till next morning and leave me with kids. Anyway I’m really unhappy no sex life or anything anymore, think I’ve just taken too much and I need some advice on how I can leave? I’ve got the house and he has nowhere which makes me feel guilty. Thanks 😞
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Unfortunately This controlling behaviour is manipulative abuse to keep you scared to leave him. He will manipulate you and threaten his way back in the door if he knows you want to leave him. I suggets you gather evidence of his controlling and if violent violent behaviour record all messages all acts including around the children, If you wish to stay at your house kick him out get the locks changed and if you can stay at a family member or friends for a few days so he cant intimidate you at your address. If this fails call the police and use the evidence to havw a restraining order put in place. If he is controlling you he will start doing it to the kids and thats a sad day when kids are scared of there own parent. I hope you get the help you need xxx