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Hi there I was wondering if I could have a private post please? Many thanks in a…

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Hi there I was wondering if I could have a private post please? Many thanks in advance.

Hey ladies Im down south with my partner at the moment so he can see his kids. I havent seen his kids at all because he hasn’t seen them for months due to their mother making it difficult. The last time we came down the kids grandparents took them away from my partner because I was here. So I feel rubbish enough as it is. I’m now 7 months pregnant so I’m thinking maybe I’m just hormonal. But he was aloud to see his kids today to build a relationship with them basically on the condition that I wasn’t there. So I’ve been wandering round town trying to sneak about places so I don’t bump into them or anything as they are with the birth mums dad. (Their grandad) is it wrong that I feel really annoyed because I feel like I’m made out to be a monster? I’ve met the eldest once years ago. my partner came back and he was all happy and that but he knew something was up with me. I’m thinking like I say it’s probably hormonal. But I just feel like a shit person and made out as if I can’t be around his kids! When she moved on from my partner she moved her partner in straight away round the boys without my partner having any say so he was aloud round the boys straight away but I’ve been with him nearly two years and it’s not a good idea me round them? I guess I’m asking if I am justified in feeling like this? Thanks everyone in advance I’m just a bit down about it xxx
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  • Sorry but if he hasnt seen them for months then no way should you be there. He needs to build a relationship with hes kids you shouldnt even come into it until that relastionship is established again. Let him get to know hes kids again and them him on hes own x

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