Hiya can I have a private post plz need some advice , I’m 6 months pregnant and…


Hiya can I have a private post plz 😊 need some advice , I’m 6 months pregnant and work full time with 4 other kids. This pregnancy has been complicated and I’ve been in and out hosp with it. My hubby is Muslim and Ramadan starts tomorrow. I dread this time of year as he’s always so grumpy and wanting to sleep loads as he’s fasting. I respect Ramadan and what it stands for but dislike fact makes my hubby so hard to live with. I think I’m gonna really struggle as he will not have energy help as much πŸ˜”….. should he not think of me and unborn child and fast next year esp considering he’s turns into a nightmare live with when he’s fasting x


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  • 25th May 2017 at 12:12 pm
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    Depends how devout he is. The fact he’s grumpy isn’t a good enough reason to be exempt. You can’t expect him to forsake his religion. I wouldn’t expect him to personally. Are you are Muslim? When marrying into a different culture/religion etc these are just things you have to accept and respect

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  • 25th May 2017 at 12:12 pm
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    Being grumpy is nothing you did it with 4 other kids. If he is really into his religion I wouldn’t ask him to not do it.

    You knew it would happen.

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  • 25th May 2017 at 12:12 pm
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    you could have to somebody talk to him about Ramadan just to remind him that Ramadan is a time not just to fast but to love and share. You’re not supposed to sleep all the time during Ramadan it kind of defeats the object doesn’t it.
    As far as I’m aware (although don’t quote me as fact) he could put of fasting until a later date but continue to give charity and feed the poor to still play part x

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  • 25th May 2017 at 12:12 pm
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    Quite a selfish thing expecting him to give it up Because you can’t be arsed with him being moody and not help

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