Hiya could I have a private post please. I’ve been seeing this lad for 9 months,…
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Hiya could I have a private post please. I’ve been seeing this lad for 9 months, I knew he liked a drink but I’ve never seen it as an issue. He met my kids for the first time Friday at a party and he was merry drunk, I brushed it off. Last night we were meant to go to the cinema , I was running late so let him know and offered to drive to another cinema a bit later on. He said I’ll be half cut by then, he’d been out for an hour already.
I said it didn’t matter, as I was driving home I thought of how every date we’ve had has ended up in a pub – I was really disappointed about the film and I told him, he said I was making an issue out of nothing and he was only joking. He said he was pissed off at me for getting ratty with him and pissed off for missing the film. I tried to apologise and he just said up until tonight he could see a future with me, now he couldn’t but he was not changing for anyone. He’s not spoke to me since. Am I over reacting? All I wanted was one night where we just went out and had a laugh without him having a skinful
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Could you please add that he’s actually been to see the film today without me… 😞
I went through a similar experience to find out after 3 months he was an alcoholic , he just hid it well then I thought I could maybe help him and stayed for 2 years … After 2 rehab attempts , jail sentences (for him ) and utter misery I broke free – my advice for u is to let him go as that life is draining and nothing but sadness x
He sounds like a waster! Think yourself lucky that he doesn’t see a future and get away from him x
No your not overreacting .If he can’t not drink all the time your better off moving on!
Do not do it and do not put your children through it!! Speaking from a child’s point of view!!
The drink will always come before you so don’t get attached to him run while you can and find a better man
Better off out of it I speak from experience