Hiya, could I have a private post please? NBR… Please no bashing.
I don’t know what I’m looking for with this but I just need to get it off my chest.
I just feel lonely, I moved to the salford area last year to be with my partner (which I don’t regret) but I left my friends and family behind and now I’m struggling to make new friends, I still see my family lots but I haven’t seen my friends once this year (used to be weekly) we talk on a regular basis but it’s not the same. I miss being able pop over, have a chat and cup of tea with the kids or days out and especially girls night out on the rare occasion we get a night off lol. I do find it hard to socialise with people, sometimes take a while to get back to plans but I will , I possibly come across as a weirdo lol probably am but I’m as loyal, friendly and always there when you need me…
I don’t want people to feel sorry for me or sympathy because I have a fab life, I’m a mommy to two children, I have a wonderful fiancé and a great family which I will always be greatful for because I’m lucky to have what I have, but I just miss being me… Someone to go out with who just expects me to have a laugh and a good time aswell as themselves and have play dates with the kiddies whilst having adult company to keep us sane sometimes…
Just don’t know what else to try, I’ve tried the play groups, I’ve tried certain mommy websites, I’ve spoken to my partner who tries to make me feel better but doesn’t know how to help, so maybe try this?
Thank you for taking the time out to read this 😊 x